I have a lot of “thank you” notes to write this summer…….
Not because of a party where I received lots of gifts.
Not because a group of people came and moved a piano; although a group did come and do that for me several years ago, and I’m pretty sure I never wrote a note of thanks about that day.
I am so sorry!
It meant the world to me, Anita! Thank you for organizing the team of helpers that day. Watching six men heave a piano up a flight of stairs was terrifying, hilarious, and meaningful all rolled into one.
But you knew, and I knew, that Evan needed a quiet place to practice his gift; and that day will forever stick in my mind as incredibly significant.
Even more than that, Anita, thank you for leading all of our boys on mission trips through the years.
I give you and Ron so much credit for each of our sons’ love for adventure, attitude of fearlessness, excitement about traveling, and heart for reaching people who do not know Christ as their Savior!
Those are the kinds of thank you notes I need to write.
Notes that simply express to many of my friends and family how much it means to me that they have just “been there” for me and my family through the years.
It’s easy to assume that the people we love know how much we appreciate them, but there is something amazingly powerful about penning your thoughts so that these special people can realize that they matter, that their presence in your life has changed you; and that without them you (and possibly your entire family) would not be who you are today.
Those are the kinds of notes I want to write this summer.
And my list is long………..
What if everyone who reads this blog entry decides to mail ten thank you notes a month for three months to friends and family who have made an impact on their lives?
If 150 people read this, that could result in nearly 5,000 thank you notes being written! Who knows how these notes could change the lives of those who read them!
I know I have many more than 30 people to thank! I am willing to sacrifice some of my time to let them know how much I love them!
How about you?
Could you sacrifice a little time and commit to writing 10 thank you notes a month for three months?
Saying “thank you” shows honor.
God longs to hear those words from us too.
Psalm 50:23 says,
“But giving thanks is a sacrifice that
truly honors me.”
So on a much greater scale, try writing a “thank you” note to God.
This can sometimes be a painful experience, because there are parts of life that seem impossible to visit with words of thanks.
I promise you this, though, if you start writing and allow your heart to creep towards the painful parts of life with a spirit of gratitude, God will notice.
He will hear you.
He will see your sacrifice of praise.
He will be honored.
And I believe, you will be blessed in return.
My challenge today is this:
Choose thirty people who have impacted your life (teachers, friends, family, neighbors, friendly grocery store employees, and on and on). Begin writing your thank you notes today.
And at the same time, begin writing the most life-changing thank you note ever,
Your personal note to God.
There’s something extra-powerful about watching those words slip from your heart to paper.
Try it.
And let me know how it goes.
Email me at tammynischan@yahoo.com or leave a note here on my blog anytime. I read them all!
Thankful today for all of you who read my words and hopefully journey closer to His Heart!


In December of 2007 as our youngest son, Nick, was fighting brain cancer, I began to blog. Writing provided a way for me to release all of my questions, fears, and doubts. It also allowed me to share the ups and downs of Nick's journey with people who were praying for him all over the world. When Nick went Home in November of 2008, my blog became my way of searching for God in the midst of my deep heartache. My heart was broken and grief brought to the surface every emotion imaginable. Being able to release those emotions through my writing brought a sense of purpose to my pain. Having already walked the road of grief in 1992 when we lost our daughter to SIDS, I knew I needed a way to keep from falling into a pit of depression and despair. I had walked close to the edge of a bottomless pit when we lost our daughter,and I knew I couldn't let myself get that close to the edge again. This blog has been and continues to be my tiny corner of the world where I can share My Heart as I journey through God's Word.......thus the name........ My Heart His Words. Thank you for taking time to share life with me. If we do not meet while here on earth, I look forward to hearing all about your life when we reach our final destiny.........Heaven! Email me anytime at 
