It’s never pretty when we lose our grip.
People or things we hold dear often end up hurt or broken as we do or say things that just aren’t normal.
 Normally, I don’t move my sugar jar.
Normally, I don’t move my sugar jar. 
I take my spoon to it.
But, in the early hours of this morning, I picked the whole thing up and in the process, I lost my grip.
And now I have to fix what never should have broken.
Do you have things in your life that need to be fixed?
Relationships?
Family routines?
Attitudes?
Perceptions?
Priorities?
Sometimes, losing your grip is the only way to know there’s a problem.
Because it’s in losing our grip that we come face to face with the reality that we really can’t hold things together on our own anyway.
It’s hard for me to let go of things, but I’m learning more and more every day that the act of letting go is the beginning of being set free.
Because letting go means we are allowing Someone else to hold on more tightly than we ever could.
Isn’t it funny how we cling to things as if we have any kind of power anyway?
As if our grip means anything more than selfish pride.
My sugar lid will forever show the scars of my inability to hold on tightly.
But I hope it is a daily morning reminder of just how little I can really hold onto anything in this life.
I’m thankful to know that He who made me never loses His grip.
He never loses His grip on any of us.
Nothing can snatch us from His hands.
Colossians 1:17
He is before all things,
and in him all things hold together.
John 10:29
My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all;
no one can snatch them out of my Father’s hand.
I hope you will feel His grip on your life today even if you feel like you are losing yours.
He’s holding you.
Maybe that’s what Jesus’ scars are all about……
God let go of His Son just long enough to save us.
 
					




 
  
  
  
  
  
 
 In December of 2007 as our youngest son, Nick, was fighting brain cancer, I began to blog. Writing provided a way for me to release all of my questions, fears, and doubts. It also allowed me to share the ups and downs of Nick's journey with people who were praying for him all over the world. When Nick went Home in November of 2008, my blog became my way of searching for God in the midst of my deep heartache.  My heart was broken and grief brought to the surface every emotion imaginable. Being able to release those emotions through my writing brought a sense of purpose to my pain. Having already walked the road of grief in 1992 when we lost our daughter to SIDS, I knew I needed a way to keep from falling into a pit of depression and despair. I had walked close to the edge of a bottomless pit when we lost our daughter,and I knew I couldn't let myself get that close to the edge again. This blog has been and continues to be my tiny corner of the world where I can share My Heart as I journey through God's Word.......thus the name........ My Heart His Words. Thank you for taking time to share life with me. If we do not meet while here on earth, I look forward to hearing all about your life when we reach our final destiny.........Heaven! Email me anytime at
In December of 2007 as our youngest son, Nick, was fighting brain cancer, I began to blog. Writing provided a way for me to release all of my questions, fears, and doubts. It also allowed me to share the ups and downs of Nick's journey with people who were praying for him all over the world. When Nick went Home in November of 2008, my blog became my way of searching for God in the midst of my deep heartache.  My heart was broken and grief brought to the surface every emotion imaginable. Being able to release those emotions through my writing brought a sense of purpose to my pain. Having already walked the road of grief in 1992 when we lost our daughter to SIDS, I knew I needed a way to keep from falling into a pit of depression and despair. I had walked close to the edge of a bottomless pit when we lost our daughter,and I knew I couldn't let myself get that close to the edge again. This blog has been and continues to be my tiny corner of the world where I can share My Heart as I journey through God's Word.......thus the name........ My Heart His Words. Thank you for taking time to share life with me. If we do not meet while here on earth, I look forward to hearing all about your life when we reach our final destiny.........Heaven! Email me anytime at 
