I get tired of hearing empty words in the face of tragedy.
Honestly, I often find myself with no words to offer someone who is hurting.
I love that Job’s friends, seeing his overwhelming sadness, simply sat with him for seven days without talking.
I love that silence seemed most appropriate at such a painful time.
Today, I have several people on my heart who are going through very, very tough seasons.
The human part of me wants to offer all kinds of words of encouragement but if I’m really honest,
“I have no words.”
So, today, as I think of these friends and so many others who are hurting,
I’m going to choose to lift them to Him who has the answers and then just be quiet.
God knows.
He cares.
He is working.
My words are flat, meaningless, and empty compared to the Words of Him who writes their life stories.
His Words are alive and active.
They stir hearts, they empower, they uplift, they give hope, they inspire, and they bring confidence.
His Words are both written in His book and written on our hearts as He writes each of our life stories.
Whether you have accepted the fact that He is the author of your life or not,
He still is.
He always will be.
He is the beginning and the end.
The first and the last.
The Alpha and the Omega.
The Great I Am.
Today, no matter what you’re facing,
never forget that His Words will never come up short.
They are not empty.
Let Him fill you today with His promises and His peace.
And let all of us who love you sit silently with you so that you know you are not alone in your heartache, your struggles, and your questions.
As you face today, know this:
YOU ARE LOVED.
HEBREWS 4:12
For the word of God is living and active,
sharper than any two-edged sword,
piercing to the division of soul and of spirit,
of joints and of marrow,
and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart.
I Thess. 2:13
And we also thank God constantly for this,
that when you received the word of God,
which you heard from us,
you accepted it not as the word of men but as what it really is,
the word of God,
which is at work in you believers.
Acts 20:32
And now I commend you to God and to the word of his grace,
which is able to build you up and to give you the inheritance among all those who are sanctified.
John 1:1-3
In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God,
and the Word was God. He was in the beginning with God.
All things were made through him,
and without him was not any thing made that was made.

In December of 2007 as our youngest son, Nick, was fighting brain cancer, I began to blog. Writing provided a way for me to release all of my questions, fears, and doubts. It also allowed me to share the ups and downs of Nick's journey with people who were praying for him all over the world. When Nick went Home in November of 2008, my blog became my way of searching for God in the midst of my deep heartache. My heart was broken and grief brought to the surface every emotion imaginable. Being able to release those emotions through my writing brought a sense of purpose to my pain. Having already walked the road of grief in 1992 when we lost our daughter to SIDS, I knew I needed a way to keep from falling into a pit of depression and despair. I had walked close to the edge of a bottomless pit when we lost our daughter,and I knew I couldn't let myself get that close to the edge again. This blog has been and continues to be my tiny corner of the world where I can share My Heart as I journey through God's Word.......thus the name........ My Heart His Words. Thank you for taking time to share life with me. If we do not meet while here on earth, I look forward to hearing all about your life when we reach our final destiny.........Heaven! Email me anytime at 

yes, Tammy, there are no words but His. I need Him more and more.
Appreciate what you have to say, and I, like you, am finding it best to say ‘I have no words, I am praying for you’. Deedy