Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If
anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will
come in and eat with him, and he with me. To
him who overcomes, I will give the right to sit
with me on my throne, just as I overcame and
sat down with my Father on his throne.
Rev. 3:20-21
As we stood visiting for a few minutes after Grandpa’s funeral, I was struck by a gentleman’s tie who was standing right behind me. On the tie you can see Jesus knocking at the door. I felt such peace when I saw this image so strategically placed right beside Grandpa, as if Jesus were saying, “I’m here!”
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But before I even saw the tie, I had been given a big smile by none other than Nick!!!
Nick loved Batman. I have so many pictures of him in Batman shirts, ball caps, and jammies! When we turned into the cemetery, my sister said, “Look, there’s Batman!” And I couldn’t believe it! Almost perfectly in line with Grandpa’s gravesite was this tombstone!!!
I felt embraced by God and Nick at Grandpa’s funeral! And during all of this, I was receiving texts from a friend back home who was on a walk and was finding a new penny each time she did a lap around the college campus where our husbands work!!! She ended up finding three pennies on one walk!!!
Nick was making us all smile that day!
Thankful for a Father who is creative enough to use a tie ,a tombstone, and three pennies to say “all is well,”


In December of 2007 as our youngest son, Nick, was fighting brain cancer, I began to blog. Writing provided a way for me to release all of my questions, fears, and doubts. It also allowed me to share the ups and downs of Nick's journey with people who were praying for him all over the world. When Nick went Home in November of 2008, my blog became my way of searching for God in the midst of my deep heartache. My heart was broken and grief brought to the surface every emotion imaginable. Being able to release those emotions through my writing brought a sense of purpose to my pain. Having already walked the road of grief in 1992 when we lost our daughter to SIDS, I knew I needed a way to keep from falling into a pit of depression and despair. I had walked close to the edge of a bottomless pit when we lost our daughter,and I knew I couldn't let myself get that close to the edge again. This blog has been and continues to be my tiny corner of the world where I can share My Heart as I journey through God's Word.......thus the name........ My Heart His Words. Thank you for taking time to share life with me. If we do not meet while here on earth, I look forward to hearing all about your life when we reach our final destiny.........Heaven! Email me anytime at 

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Melanie
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