I’m thankful for a mom and dad who raised me in the church. I remember MANY times when going on Wednesday night, especially, was the LAST thing I wanted to do because of homework and school activities….
But we went.
Faithfully.
Weekly.
For my entire childhood.
I believe that because of their commitment to being my pillars as a little girl, I am more equipped to be a pillar for my children.
I still have so much to learn.
But seeing this picture reminded me that my kids and ALL OF OUR KIDS need pillars to lean on.
Even if they can’t lean on their parents or grandparents, are we being pillars for the kids in our community?
I feel convicted this morning.
Convicted and inspired to do more.
Thank you, Mom and Dad, for raising me in the church.
I’ve had to do a lot of leaning through the years!!!




In December of 2007 as our youngest son, Nick, was fighting brain cancer, I began to blog. Writing provided a way for me to release all of my questions, fears, and doubts. It also allowed me to share the ups and downs of Nick's journey with people who were praying for him all over the world. When Nick went Home in November of 2008, my blog became my way of searching for God in the midst of my deep heartache. My heart was broken and grief brought to the surface every emotion imaginable. Being able to release those emotions through my writing brought a sense of purpose to my pain. Having already walked the road of grief in 1992 when we lost our daughter to SIDS, I knew I needed a way to keep from falling into a pit of depression and despair. I had walked close to the edge of a bottomless pit when we lost our daughter,and I knew I couldn't let myself get that close to the edge again. This blog has been and continues to be my tiny corner of the world where I can share My Heart as I journey through God's Word.......thus the name........ My Heart His Words. Thank you for taking time to share life with me. If we do not meet while here on earth, I look forward to hearing all about your life when we reach our final destiny.........Heaven! Email me anytime at 

Hey Tammy,
Thanks for he “flowers” on this another day with which He has gifted us.
We all still have a lot to learn.
You guys always make me look like I knew what I am doing as a parent.
Much love,
Dad