I don’t know about you, but I always have something on my mind, somewhere I need to be, someone I need to call………..
I love people, so I’m definitely not complaining.
I’m just keenly aware that my mind never stops spinning with the next thing.
This spinning in my mind often causes me to miss parts of conversations going on around me.
I think while people are talking, and sometimes I pretend I hear everything even when I don’t.
I don’t like this quality in me and neither does God.
James says we are suppose to be quick to listen and SLOW TO SPEAK.
OUCH, OUCH, OUCH!
If you know me, you know I love to talk.
I don’t think I love to talk just to hear my own voice.
I just love a good conversation.
But this morning, I’m thinking God is speaking very personally to me about what can happen when I am not SLOW TO SPEAK.
When I am not slow to speak, I am definitely not quick to listen.
NOPE.
I am not all ears when I am all mouth.
And I’m just thinking that in this fast-paced world with tweets and Facebook statuses literally running out our ears, God would love some “quick to listen” people.
There’s nothing like a conversation with someone who is quick to listen.
You feel their eye contact, you notice their expression as you share your hurt, your fear, your concerns, and your happy moments.
They are with you in every sense of the word. No cell phone distraction. No interruption of your thoughts. No checking their watch to see when they can run the other way.
I want to be that kind of friend.
My challenge today is for all of us to intentionally choose a person to whom we will become committed as a “quick listener.”
Maybe it’s someone you work with who needs your ear. Maybe it’s your spouse. Maybe it’s a child or a friend.
I post this with great fear and trembling, because I know that many of you who read this interact with me every day……..so, I’m sort-of putting myself “out there” in a way that says, “Hold me accountable, please.”
In a fast-paced world, I believe God is looking for people who are “quick to listen.”
I also believe He longs to see people who are slow to speak……and slow to become angry (I’m saving that for tomorrow!)
My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires. Therefore, get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent and humbly accept the word planted in you, which can save you.
James 1:19-21



In December of 2007 as our youngest son, Nick, was fighting brain cancer, I began to blog. Writing provided a way for me to release all of my questions, fears, and doubts. It also allowed me to share the ups and downs of Nick's journey with people who were praying for him all over the world. When Nick went Home in November of 2008, my blog became my way of searching for God in the midst of my deep heartache. My heart was broken and grief brought to the surface every emotion imaginable. Being able to release those emotions through my writing brought a sense of purpose to my pain. Having already walked the road of grief in 1992 when we lost our daughter to SIDS, I knew I needed a way to keep from falling into a pit of depression and despair. I had walked close to the edge of a bottomless pit when we lost our daughter,and I knew I couldn't let myself get that close to the edge again. This blog has been and continues to be my tiny corner of the world where I can share My Heart as I journey through God's Word.......thus the name........ My Heart His Words. Thank you for taking time to share life with me. If we do not meet while here on earth, I look forward to hearing all about your life when we reach our final destiny.........Heaven! Email me anytime at 
