One of these shoes is my sister’s…![]()
The other shoe is mine.
These shoes say a lot about who we are.
My sister has always been a risk taker…..an adventurer…she moved to Florida right out of college, she’s been white water rafting several times, she works in a newborn intensive care unit as a nurse and deals with tough stuff every day.
She can walk in high heels with great ease.
I can’t.
I’ve always been afraid of change. I’ve been a worrier by nature since I was a little girl. I tend to play it safe in life.
I wear flats and this allows me to walk without being afraid of falling.
As Brenda and I sat together at the wedding, we laughed at the difference in our shoes..we had to take a picture! It was so “us.”
It use to really bother me that my sister and I were so different, but the truth is Brenda is Brenda and I am Tammy. We are sisters on totally different roads and that’s okay. We love each other and that’s all that matters.
I can honestly say that somehow God has freed me from whatever held me back as a child. I’m not afraid of much anymore. Change has become my new “normal.” Taking risks is something I am learning to do more and more every day.
Yes, I still wear flats.
But I’m thankful to have a sister who is daring enough to wear heels! She inspires me.
And I’m thankful for a God who can take a nervous, insecure little girl and help her become so much more.
Are there people in your life that you wish you could be more like? Are there things about you that you wish were different?
Take these longings to God. I’ll bet you’ll discover that God made you just the way you are for a reason AND that He longs to use your strengths and weaknesses to help others know Him better.![]()
Still learning to walk this road of life for His glory …even if I’m walking in flats,
In December of 2007 as our youngest son, Nick, was fighting brain cancer, I began to blog. Writing provided a way for me to release all of my questions, fears, and doubts. It also allowed me to share the ups and downs of Nick's journey with people who were praying for him all over the world. When Nick went Home in November of 2008, my blog became my way of searching for God in the midst of my deep heartache. My heart was broken and grief brought to the surface every emotion imaginable. Being able to release those emotions through my writing brought a sense of purpose to my pain. Having already walked the road of grief in 1992 when we lost our daughter to SIDS, I knew I needed a way to keep from falling into a pit of depression and despair. I had walked close to the edge of a bottomless pit when we lost our daughter,and I knew I couldn't let myself get that close to the edge again. This blog has been and continues to be my tiny corner of the world where I can share My Heart as I journey through God's Word.......thus the name........ My Heart His Words. Thank you for taking time to share life with me. If we do not meet while here on earth, I look forward to hearing all about your life when we reach our final destiny.........Heaven! Email me anytime at 

Thank you so much for this post!!
I have been feeling very insecure and thinking that I just don’t measure up to everyone else.
I do have many areas that I need to let God change me, but I also need to accept that I am not anyone but Janet and if I try to be someone else then I certainly wouldn’t be pleasing to God because that’s not who He made me. Thanks again Tammy.
Another GREAT post Tammy. This was precious.
I love how different yet alike you and your sister are.
I wear flats too!!
You all looked great, black and white…my favorite colors♥