The recent shooting of Representative Gabrielle Giffords along with the murders of six innocent people and injuries to over a dozen more has our country asking the question, “Why?”
I’m not sure if we’ll ever understand what brings a person to a point in life where this is the choice they make on an otherwise average day in an otherwise average grocery store parking lot.
Pointing fingers at gun laws, political movements, school authorities, and parental upbringing may bring a temporary sense of control to a world that feels out of control but from my limited perspective this will never provide the answer we are all longing for to the question of “Why?”
Understanding the mind of this shooter will be the top priority for a group of qualified individuals for months to come.
I’m sure stories will come out about his past on a continual basis for months to come.
However, none of these stories and no amount of psychiatric research will change the fact that lives have been lost and/or changed forever by the decision he made in this particular parking lot on this particular day.
Knowing this, I have to ask myself what we can learn from this tragic event?
And what I keep coming back to is this:
Life is uncertain.
Life is fragile.
There will always be unstable people making tragic decisions that affect the innocent. No amount of pre-planning can make this world a perfect place.
Jesus says,
In this world you will have trouble……
His words seem very disheartening and lacking hope until you read the rest of that same verse.
But take heart! I have overcome the world.
Being home for an extended period of time has allowed me to watch the news more than I usually do. There is a doctor on trial for murdering his wife, a young lobbyist from DC who died in a car fire this morning leaving three young children behind her, Australia is battling horrific flooding (HOW ARE YOU, JENNIFER? ARE YOU OKAY, SNEESBY FAMILY? I HAVE PRAYED FOR YOU TODAY?), and the list goes on and on.
At times like these, I could easily become discouraged and anxious. It seems that most the news that is shared on television is anything but good.
However, I am clinging to the good news in Jesus’ words..
and taking heart.
He has overcome this world!
So, for today, as I think of the many families grieving the loss of daughters, sons, mothers, fathers, brothers, sisters, cousins, and friends, I whisper a prayer and ask God to send people into their lives who can provide the support and love they need as they step onto the long road of grief ahead of them. And I pray that as they journey this lonely and often treacherous road they will discover peace, hope, and a purpose in their pain along the way……..
Knowing that Jesus walks the road with them in a very personal way.


In December of 2007 as our youngest son, Nick, was fighting brain cancer, I began to blog. Writing provided a way for me to release all of my questions, fears, and doubts. It also allowed me to share the ups and downs of Nick's journey with people who were praying for him all over the world. When Nick went Home in November of 2008, my blog became my way of searching for God in the midst of my deep heartache. My heart was broken and grief brought to the surface every emotion imaginable. Being able to release those emotions through my writing brought a sense of purpose to my pain. Having already walked the road of grief in 1992 when we lost our daughter to SIDS, I knew I needed a way to keep from falling into a pit of depression and despair. I had walked close to the edge of a bottomless pit when we lost our daughter,and I knew I couldn't let myself get that close to the edge again. This blog has been and continues to be my tiny corner of the world where I can share My Heart as I journey through God's Word.......thus the name........ My Heart His Words. Thank you for taking time to share life with me. If we do not meet while here on earth, I look forward to hearing all about your life when we reach our final destiny.........Heaven! Email me anytime at 

Tammy, you dear one, thank you for thinking of me at this time of such devastation in Queensland. Thank God, I am in West Australia right over on the other coast. But even here we are having problems. Floods up north and in keeping with your post a huge bushfire near Perth that has destroyed homes, livestock and land. Set by an arsonist–another deranged person or persons.
The family of my stepsons, who live in Toowoomba, Queensland, where the wall of water went down the main street, have two friends missing and one friend dead. Something like this disaster touches so many lives.
Oh, Jen, I have been so worried about you. Tim told me from the kitchen of the devastation in Australia, and my heart immediately thought of you. When I saw the video footage, I was overwhelmed.
So thankful to hear from you!
Much love,
Tammy