That seems to be the first word out of my mouth lately…….
Or in my texts to friends……….
Or in my emails………….
I’m just taking deep breaths in and deep breaths out.
Sometimes the simplest things become the most difficult when you are walking the road of grief.
Packing, for example.
We decided that staying home for Christmas would simply be too difficult. Too many traditions that Nick loved and looked forward to.
So, my husband, Erich, Evan, Todd, and Olivia (our four kids) are leaving at 4 a.m. for Oklahoma to go see my grandpa, aunt, and cousins.
My parents, who live “on the way” are meeting us at an exit a few hours from here and traveling along with us in their car.
We will be driving 13 hours tomorrow and spending three nights in Branson, Missouri, on the way to the panhandle of Oklahoma.
Then on Christmas Eve we will drive 6 more hours and arrive at our next hotel in time to go spend the evening with family in Beaver, Oklahoma.
So, here I sit.
I just had to stop and say, “Packing is so hard when you’re grieving.”
I miss Nick so much and not packing for him has been so hard. He loved trips. He would have been right here reminding me of things we needed, asking if I needed help. He was just that kind of kid.
And walking through his room, I long to stop and help him pick out jammies, video games, and other things he would definitely want to bring along.
So tonight has been a night of tears. I took a bath and just cried and cried. Then I thought I had regrouped when my mom called to remind me of something to bring, and I found myself losing it on the phone with her.
Oh, Nick, I miss you. I miss your great big smile and gentle spirit. I miss your hugs. I miss your sweet hand rubbing my back as I walk by.
In the midst of my sadness, I came across a burned CD that Nick had titled, “Nick’s Amazingly Awesome Music CD.” I put it in the CD player in the kitchen and was reminded again of just what a fun boy he was! When I get home from this trip, I am going to list all the songs on the CD. I promise it will lift your spirits like it is lifting mine right now!
Thank you, God, for continuing to remind me what a great blessing Nick was and will continue to be to me. Thank you for the hope of Heaven!
I’m not sure how often I will be able to write this week, so I had to take a minute to let you know I’ll be away from the computer………
Thank you for every prayer for our family.
Lifting all of you to our “Amazingly Awesome” Father,