How God Works Miracles Through our Pain………..
Jesus didn't try to hide the truth from His disciples when He said, "In this world you will have troubles." One common thread throughout history is that life has never been perfectly free from difficult moments for any generation. I've questioned God many times in...
Take Comfort in These Words Today……….
The Lord will fight for you; you need only be still. Exodus 14:14 Whatever you're facing, God faces it with you. However you're feeling, God understands. No matter the situation, God is right there too. He is with you. He loves you. He understands. He cares. He is...
One Thing That is Certain in an Uncertain World………..
I woke up this morning with several friends on my mind. One of my dear high school friends faced the unexpected loss of her sister this past Friday. Carol and her mom and dad, along with her sister's children, will attempt to step back into a world today that will...
Looking back……..
Four years ago on the Saturday following Thanksgiving, we gathered around Nick's frail body to say "good bye" and witnessed the passing of Nick from this life to the next. So much has happened in the last four years. Erich and Evan both graduated from college. Erich...
What it takes to be truly thankful…………
In this world we are usually going to be able to look around and see someone who has it a little easier, someone who seems to have at least one less thing to worry about, someone who appears to "have it all." But if we really open our eyes, we are going to see a whole...
Happy Birthday, Evan!!!!!!!!!!!
Evan, if I could hop on a plane this morning, I would! I'd fly straight to LA and take a taxi right to your apartment! And I'd hug you and tell you just how much you are loved by me and by your dad and by all of your family. But since I can't, I found a few pictures...
What Support Groups Are For………..
I never really thought I needed a "support group," but I've learned there is something very special and healing about a community of people who share the same struggle. I am more of a "reader" than a "writer" in the online support group I belong to for parents who...
When Life is a Mess and You are Stuck………..
She was only five, but she spoke to me in the midst of a classroom full of kindergartners trying to finish a sequencing task. As one child cried because she didn't know how to use scissors, this particular, brown-eyed, mussed-up-haired girl looked up and said, "My...
I Know I’m Not Saul, but………..
I just read Saturday in my chronological Bible about Paul's conversion on the road to Damascus. I read about him seeing the bright light and then being blinded for three days. I read about how God used this terrifying moment to change something inside of him. And from...
When Things Don’t Make Sense………
We've all been there, haven't we? In those moments in life that cause us to question just about everything we do and are. Why is this happening? How am I suppose to handle this? What caused this in the first place? Monday I found myself asking all of these questions...
In December of 2007 as our youngest son, Nick, was fighting brain cancer, I began to blog. Writing provided a way for me to release all of my questions, fears, and doubts. It also allowed me to share the ups and downs of Nick's journey with people who were praying for him all over the world. When Nick went Home in November of 2008, my blog became my way of searching for God in the midst of my deep heartache. My heart was broken and grief brought to the surface every emotion imaginable. Being able to release those emotions through my writing brought a sense of purpose to my pain. Having already walked the road of grief in 1992 when we lost our daughter to SIDS, I knew I needed a way to keep from falling into a pit of depression and despair. I had walked close to the edge of a bottomless pit when we lost our daughter,and I knew I couldn't let myself get that close to the edge again. This blog has been and continues to be my tiny corner of the world where I can share My Heart as I journey through God's Word.......thus the name........ My Heart His Words. Thank you for taking time to share life with me. If we do not meet while here on earth, I look forward to hearing all about your life when we reach our final destiny.........Heaven! Email me anytime at 



