Last night I had the chance to catch up with one of my dear, dear friends who moved so far from here that “visits” are impossible except over the phone. Her son and Nick were big, big buddies from the time they were seven, so we share lots of special memories of our boys living life together.
I heard her son’s voice in the background as we talked, and I was shocked at how low and deep it had become! He was growing into a man, I could tell just through the phone. It made me wonder what Nick’s voice would sound like now, but I had to “take that thought captive” and remember that God never planned for Nick to be here now and I just can’t go there or I’ll go crazy.
But as we were talking, she was sharing some counseling techniques she’s been studying and one of them involved rewriting your life story in a way that turns all the bad into something good. I loved that idea and want to learn more about it.
This morning as I was reading in Choosing Gratitude, I remembered her words and they went right along with today’s chapter in the sense that we can always find a reason to be thankful if we look hard enough.
I want to write so much more, but I need to get to school. So this afternoon we will dive into Thankful Thursday, Part II.
But for this morning, my prayer is that you will find reasons to be thankful in ALL things you face today. The good and the bad. It’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it.
Smiling in spite of sorrow,


In December of 2007 as our youngest son, Nick, was fighting brain cancer, I began to blog. Writing provided a way for me to release all of my questions, fears, and doubts. It also allowed me to share the ups and downs of Nick's journey with people who were praying for him all over the world. When Nick went Home in November of 2008, my blog became my way of searching for God in the midst of my deep heartache. My heart was broken and grief brought to the surface every emotion imaginable. Being able to release those emotions through my writing brought a sense of purpose to my pain. Having already walked the road of grief in 1992 when we lost our daughter to SIDS, I knew I needed a way to keep from falling into a pit of depression and despair. I had walked close to the edge of a bottomless pit when we lost our daughter,and I knew I couldn't let myself get that close to the edge again. This blog has been and continues to be my tiny corner of the world where I can share My Heart as I journey through God's Word.......thus the name........ My Heart His Words. Thank you for taking time to share life with me. If we do not meet while here on earth, I look forward to hearing all about your life when we reach our final destiny.........Heaven! Email me anytime at 

Thank you friend! I am SO thankful for some things, but other areas are difficult…so I will be intentional about being thankful for the molding they will accomplish in my life!
Love ya!