Have you ever had to make a big decision?
When I do, I sometimes make a list of all the things I can think of to support saying “yes” and a list of all the things that would cause me to say “no.”
Seeing the reality of what could happen as a result of my choice written out on a piece of paper can be extremely helpful.
But sometimes, decisions aren’t cut and dry.
There’s good and there’s bad on both side.
What then?
This morning I was reading about a time when Jehoshaphat had to make a very big decision about whether or not to go into battle.
Here’s what he did:
1. He declared a fast.
2. He was honest with God and said, “We do not know what to do, but our eyes are upon you.”
3. He listened for God’s answer.
4. He trusted God when God’s spirit said, “The battle is not yours, but God’s…Do not be afraid or discouraged. Go out to face them tomorrow and the Lord will be with you.”
4. He praised and worshipped God before he saw the outcome of his decision.
Today, if you find yourself trying to make a big decision,
read II Chronicles 20 and consider following Jehoshaphat’s example.
God gave him a mighty victory because of his trust and obedience.
Sometimes our answers come when we look to God with an honest heart and simply tell Him,
“We do not know what to do, but our
eyes are on you.”
II Chron. 20:12b



In December of 2007 as our youngest son, Nick, was fighting brain cancer, I began to blog. Writing provided a way for me to release all of my questions, fears, and doubts. It also allowed me to share the ups and downs of Nick's journey with people who were praying for him all over the world. When Nick went Home in November of 2008, my blog became my way of searching for God in the midst of my deep heartache. My heart was broken and grief brought to the surface every emotion imaginable. Being able to release those emotions through my writing brought a sense of purpose to my pain. Having already walked the road of grief in 1992 when we lost our daughter to SIDS, I knew I needed a way to keep from falling into a pit of depression and despair. I had walked close to the edge of a bottomless pit when we lost our daughter,and I knew I couldn't let myself get that close to the edge again. This blog has been and continues to be my tiny corner of the world where I can share My Heart as I journey through God's Word.......thus the name........ My Heart His Words. Thank you for taking time to share life with me. If we do not meet while here on earth, I look forward to hearing all about your life when we reach our final destiny.........Heaven! Email me anytime at 

Thanks Tammy. I’ve had a huge decision that has good and bad connected with it…..it’s not easy to say yes or no to.
Great advice.