Have you ever had a muffin with a glob of butter on top?
That one bite is loaded with unmistakable buttery flavor.
Life is kind-of like a muffin……
And the things we do in life become our butter.
When we do one or two things really well, there’s no mistaking our flavor.
But when we do a hundred things, the butter is spread so thin that no one really knows what we’re all about.
I’ve been a muffin with a thin layer of butter time and time again in my life,
and I’m thinking lots of you have too.
When Nick was sick, my world stopped.
“No” was an easy answer to any question set before me.
I knew my life was all about saving Nick.
And it felt good in a way to be so laser-focused in my life purpose.
Today, I’m back to being a little more spread out in my purposes and if I let myself, I can easily become overwhelmed.
BUT…………
I’m not taking life as seriously as I used to,
and I’ve decided my butter is WHO I am not WHAT I’m doing.
I am a child of God.
I am a daughter of the King.
I am separate for His purposes.
I am chosen.
I am loved by the Almighty.
I am called.
I am choosing thankfulness.
I am choosing joy.
That means that everything I do is now neatly swept under a glob of butter labeled “HIS.”
Who you are determines how you’ll handle what you do, and I’m praying today that if you are HIS you will allow that to shine through all the things in life that seem to spread you too thin.
I know you’re stressed. I am too.
I know you’re sad sometimes. I am too.
I know you’re overwhelmed. I am too.
I know you’re discouraged at times. I am too.
We have to remember WHOSE we are as we face each new day and give EVERYTHING to Him.
Take refuge under the butter of HIM and let the world taste His love in you and through you.
Psalm 34:8
Taste and see that the Lord is good;
blessed is the man who takes refuge in him.


In December of 2007 as our youngest son, Nick, was fighting brain cancer, I began to blog. Writing provided a way for me to release all of my questions, fears, and doubts. It also allowed me to share the ups and downs of Nick's journey with people who were praying for him all over the world. When Nick went Home in November of 2008, my blog became my way of searching for God in the midst of my deep heartache. My heart was broken and grief brought to the surface every emotion imaginable. Being able to release those emotions through my writing brought a sense of purpose to my pain. Having already walked the road of grief in 1992 when we lost our daughter to SIDS, I knew I needed a way to keep from falling into a pit of depression and despair. I had walked close to the edge of a bottomless pit when we lost our daughter,and I knew I couldn't let myself get that close to the edge again. This blog has been and continues to be my tiny corner of the world where I can share My Heart as I journey through God's Word.......thus the name........ My Heart His Words. Thank you for taking time to share life with me. If we do not meet while here on earth, I look forward to hearing all about your life when we reach our final destiny.........Heaven! Email me anytime at 

Thanks, Tammy. Really needed this today.