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After a week in which Tim, Olivia, and I put over 2,500 miles on our Toyota Camry, I’m about as zapped as I can be!!

A family reunion in Arkansas followed by a trip to Dallas, Texas, to visit more of our wonderful family has left me feeling anything but “full of words.”

When I reach these places of wordlessness, I find myself questioning everything about my blog.


I am a flawed, insecure, judgmental person who often fails to be the person I long to be.

I sometimes lose my cool when things get stressful.

I often question people’s motives when I don’t understand their behavior.

I try to point people towards God with my words but many times wonder if I fail with my actions.

And the list goes on and on and on……….

Being crammed in a car with your family and then sleeping in all sorts of different environments over a period of eight days and nights tests just about every inch of your sanity.

Knowing your electricity is out at your house for over three days while you are away and that different neighbors and friends are going in and out of your house to empty your frig, freezer, and deep freeze doesn’t help!  I’m thankful for great friends, but I’m a little humiliated that my not-so-clean appliances had to be purged without me in sight!

Pulling off a reception for your in-laws that you planned from 1,000 miles away doesn’t send the nervous system into a “calming” state either.  I’m thankful for my sister-in-law who helped pull things together and for all the friends who stopped by to wish Rich and Ora Lee a “Happy 50th Anniversary!”  I’m also thankful for my father-in-law who stood beside me as I had a little meltdown by their trash can in their driveway when it was all over!  Yes, I cried by a trash can in a driveway in Dallas, Texas!  OH MY!  I think it was fatigue mixed with grief.  So many friends who stopped by that evening with anniversary wishes were also prayer warriors for our family while Nick was sick.  I had never met them until this particular night.  Hugging them and telling them “thank you” for all of their prayers brought back so many memories of Nick’s fight with cancer.  Sometimes I realize I still have so far to go in my grief journey.  This particular evening by the trash can was a huge reminder.

Now I’m back in Grayson, and the whole trip is a blur.

The only good part about all the not-so-perfect moments in our vacation was that I had some funny stories for the girls in jail this evening.

Maybe that’s why I write.

Because when I type out the reality of who I am I feel better.

When I spill out the ugly, I hope that God fills me back up with some kind of beautiful.

When I pour out my heartache, I hope that God refreshes me with joy.

When I admit my flaws, I hope that God somehow erases them.

When I say, “I’m insecure,” I believe God responds with the words, “Your security should only be in me.”

So when I boil down the cartoon above that says, “Blogging requires passion and authority,” and compare it to who I am, this is what I learn……..

I am passionate about the love of God even when I don’t reflect it,


My authority comes from Him.

That’s why I share My Heart and His Words.

My heart will always belong to God even though my words will come and go.

His Words, on the other hand, will never pass away.

Listen to what Jesus says in Mark 13,

Heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will never pass away.

 “No one knows about that day or hour, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father.  Be on guard! Be alert! You do not know when that time will come.  It’s like a man going away: He leaves his house and puts his servants in charge (gives authority to his servants), each with his assigned task, and tells the one at the door to keep watch.

“Therefore keep watch because you do not know when the owner of the house will come back-whether in the evening, or at midnight, or when the rooster crows, or at dawn.  If he comes suddenly, do not let him find you sleeping.  What I say to you, I say to everyone: ‘Watch!'”

So, once again, God has brought me back to the core of why I write.

I write because I love Him and I want you to love Him too!

I want you to be ready for the day when He returns!

I may not always live up to the goals I set for myself, but I will keep on trying until the day I die.

Whether you come to my blog because you are grieving or because you want to read a little about what God’s Word means to me,

always remember that you are reading the words of a flawed and grieving mom, wife, friend, and daughter who loves God with every inch of my soul.

Thank you for sharing life with me!

I’ll share pictures from our trip this weekend.