I have several regrets from my college days.
One is choosing to audit the book of Job instead of taking it for credit..without even telling my dad I changed my schedule. (I’m not sure he would have approved of paying for something that wasn’t even going to be on my transcript, but I’m thankful he let me stay in it after he received the updated school bill.)
Another regret, among several, is not taking Greek.
Words fascinate me, and I think I would have lost myself in this class, and who knows where it would have led me in life. But, for whatever reason, I never even considered Greek class as an option…as if it were a class for boys who want to be preachers and nothing more. I remember watching Tim’s key chain of Greek root words grow over the two years he had the class; and I am pretty sure that if I climbed into the attic, I would find that key chain in a box…now I have something to do on the first snow day this winter. ![]()
For today, though, an online search had to be enough for my study of the word “joy,” and I am so excited about what I learned!!
“Joy” in Greek is “Chara.” One commentary translated this to mean “surprise gift.”
Paul uses this root word in another word, “Charis,” which is translated “grace.” I love the thought that grace is rooted in joy!!!
I also learned that if you add the prefix “eu” to “chara,” you have the word “eucharist,” which means “thanksgiving!”
Joy, grace, and thanksgiving!
Three words that are all rooted in the idea of a “surprise gift!”
There are many verses in the Old and New Testament that contain the word “joy,” but there’s a verse in the book of James that is standing out in my mind because it seems so contradictory to the things I’ve learned about the definition of “joy” this morning.
Read this verse from James 1:2-3 when I replace the word “joy” with the words “surprise gift.”
Count it “a surprise gift,” my brethren, when you meet various trials, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness.
And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.
I don’t know about you, but I don’t normally look at trials as surprise gifts.
I’ve been challenged this morning to look at all of the things in my life that seem “difficult” right now through a different lens. I want to see those places that seem to stretch me uncomfortably as gifts from God who longs to teach me to be steadfast, lacking nothing.
Today, what can you look at through a different lens?
When I think of losing two children, it is hard to use this lens. However, when I sit back and close my eyes and realize that out of all of my kids, I KNOW FOR SURE where Nick and Adrienne are…………………
in the presence of God
I am able to smile, knowing that they couldn’t be safer or more loved!!!!
As you think about the parts of your life that seem difficult at this time, try to focus on the idea that they may be “surprise gifts” in your life. When you do, I hope that you will feel the grace of God and overflow with thanksgiving!
Have a wonderful Wednesday!

In December of 2007 as our youngest son, Nick, was fighting brain cancer, I began to blog. Writing provided a way for me to release all of my questions, fears, and doubts. It also allowed me to share the ups and downs of Nick's journey with people who were praying for him all over the world. When Nick went Home in November of 2008, my blog became my way of searching for God in the midst of my deep heartache. My heart was broken and grief brought to the surface every emotion imaginable. Being able to release those emotions through my writing brought a sense of purpose to my pain. Having already walked the road of grief in 1992 when we lost our daughter to SIDS, I knew I needed a way to keep from falling into a pit of depression and despair. I had walked close to the edge of a bottomless pit when we lost our daughter,and I knew I couldn't let myself get that close to the edge again. This blog has been and continues to be my tiny corner of the world where I can share My Heart as I journey through God's Word.......thus the name........ My Heart His Words. Thank you for taking time to share life with me. If we do not meet while here on earth, I look forward to hearing all about your life when we reach our final destiny.........Heaven! Email me anytime at 

Have you read Ann Voskamp’s book One Thousand Gifts she explores charis and eucharist in a lovely moving way. Excellent book. I would recommend it for anyone who loves words and the way they can be used.
Jen,
I thought of her book as I was reading this morning. I read it, and it is wonderful! 🙂
I highly recommend it too!! I gave mine to a friend to read, and now I want to read it again!
Love you,
Tammy 🙂
I bought three copies. One for my Kindle, one to hold and one to lend out to friends. Now, I must find the travelling one, can’t remember to whom I lent it.
Surprise gifts certainly test our strength in our sustenance in God, but each time we learn something whether we like it or not. And that sustenance keeps us going, thank you Lord. Your faith helps all of us who read. Thank you, Sandy
I left you a message in email. I hope you can get to it before your retreat and if not, enjoy spreading your wonderful wisdom to all those lucky people who will hear you speak. And get back to me when you can.
Dear Friend,
Just wanted to let you know I am studying “joy” along with you! This time of year is always difficult for me. Malorie’s anniversary day into Heaven is in Oct.
Hmm, trials as surprise gifts? I wouldn’t have thought of them that way until I read what you wrote, “in the presence of God” Knowing that Mal is in HIS presence, definitely brings a smile. 10 years ago, I would not have gotten that but now, being in the presence of God is true joy! Can’t wait til we are ALL in His presence!!!!
I love you Tammy,
natalie
This is great, Tammy!
Love you.
I really wanted to take Greek while at KCU but it never fit into my schedule! It is still on my list of things to learn. I hope to have the opportunity to take it if I ever get to work on a PhD…