Anytime you buy a new appliance, it comes with a nice, thick book of instructions……
I save those manuals, but honestly, I rarely use them.
This past week, however, one of the students from the college where my husband teaches was in a pinch and needed some help. He and his roommate both needed shirts ironed for an evening event, and Heath’s suit needed some extra help. It had been in his truck for a long time where it had become very wrinkled and dirty.
I knew my washer and dryer had a setting for dry cleaning, but I had never tried it before.
We searched everywhere for the manual.
We even googled my appliances thinking we could find the instructions.
No luck.
So, we looked at the settings on my washer and found one that said “deep steam.”
“That has to be it!” I foolishly thought.
So, I popped Heath’s suit in, and as the famous saying goes,
Oh my. I wish you could have seen my face when I pulled this suit out of my washer.
I wish I could have seen my face.
I was all alone at the house, so I grabbed my phone trying to reach Heath. I was finally able to get a hold of him, and he handled the whole ordeal with such grace and good humor.
I’ll never forget the night I tried to use my washer without reading the manual.
If you think about it, God knew life was going to be extremely complicated and difficult, so He left us with a very special Manual (His Word) too.
If you are facing tough decisions, don’t try to make them on your own.
Find your Manual and read it.
Believe me, you will be very sorry if you don’t.
Humbled once again,


In December of 2007 as our youngest son, Nick, was fighting brain cancer, I began to blog. Writing provided a way for me to release all of my questions, fears, and doubts. It also allowed me to share the ups and downs of Nick's journey with people who were praying for him all over the world. When Nick went Home in November of 2008, my blog became my way of searching for God in the midst of my deep heartache. My heart was broken and grief brought to the surface every emotion imaginable. Being able to release those emotions through my writing brought a sense of purpose to my pain. Having already walked the road of grief in 1992 when we lost our daughter to SIDS, I knew I needed a way to keep from falling into a pit of depression and despair. I had walked close to the edge of a bottomless pit when we lost our daughter,and I knew I couldn't let myself get that close to the edge again. This blog has been and continues to be my tiny corner of the world where I can share My Heart as I journey through God's Word.......thus the name........ My Heart His Words. Thank you for taking time to share life with me. If we do not meet while here on earth, I look forward to hearing all about your life when we reach our final destiny.........Heaven! Email me anytime at 

Oh my. So funny!
Oh, Well, at least it was clean! And probably germ free.
I admire both you and Heath for handling the whole ordeal with such aplomb.
I wish I could have seen your face as well!!
Just wanted you to know that I have been hesitant to email…two days ago I received a spam from your email address. The yahoo one.
I know this happened once before but I thought I had the new address. The email said it was from you – and I felt so bad that I had not already emailed you – and then it was a supposed ad for a cell phone with a website to check out (that start http://www.allah something???) I am totally assuming that it was NOT from you:)
Anyhoo, not sure if others have had trouble…but here is my address.
14217 Catbird Drive
Gainesville, VA 20155
Hope all is falling into place for a sweet and peaceful time next week at your house. I will be praying for all of you. Hugs, friend.
Jennifer