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Saturday after the alumni soccer game at KCU, my friend Martha and I ran to Homespun Sisters to buy a shower gift for another friend’s daughter who is getting married next month.
We found this beautiful clock, word sign, and candle and thought it would be a perfect gift from us and two other ladies who were all going together on our gift……the message we wanted to send with this gift was
“Always make time for love.”
But guess what?
We forgot to write that message inside the card! 🙁
Isn’t that how it goes so many times?
We have an idea, an intention, a goal, a dream……but in the end, we don’t carry through.
In the busyness of life at our house, taking time to show love is something that requires great effort and determination.
I have a lot of regrets in life. One of them is not making the most of every opportunity to show love to my family.
But life isn’t like a video game where we can “Start Over.” We have to start where we’re at and go from there.
Are there people in your life that need to hear the words “I love you?” Are there family members who need to know how much you care about them?
For tonight, I just wanted to say, “Always make time for love.”
I’m speaking at a retreat in February where the theme is “Authentic Friendship.” I believe that to be an authentic friend, we have to be able to make time to show our love to our friends. So, tonight, in the craziness of all we are involved in right now, I wanted to say “I love you all so much,” but most of all I wanted to say:
I love you, Tim.
Proverbs 17:16-18
A friend loves at all times……..

In December of 2007 as our youngest son, Nick, was fighting brain cancer, I began to blog. Writing provided a way for me to release all of my questions, fears, and doubts. It also allowed me to share the ups and downs of Nick's journey with people who were praying for him all over the world. When Nick went Home in November of 2008, my blog became my way of searching for God in the midst of my deep heartache. My heart was broken and grief brought to the surface every emotion imaginable. Being able to release those emotions through my writing brought a sense of purpose to my pain. Having already walked the road of grief in 1992 when we lost our daughter to SIDS, I knew I needed a way to keep from falling into a pit of depression and despair. I had walked close to the edge of a bottomless pit when we lost our daughter,and I knew I couldn't let myself get that close to the edge again. This blog has been and continues to be my tiny corner of the world where I can share My Heart as I journey through God's Word.......thus the name........ My Heart His Words. Thank you for taking time to share life with me. If we do not meet while here on earth, I look forward to hearing all about your life when we reach our final destiny.........Heaven! Email me anytime at 

thanks baby! I love you too!