As we watched fireworks this past weekend, I noticed something.
Something that really made me think.
When I was a little girl, I remember getting soooo excited about going to watch fireworks! I remember packing blankets and drinks and driving to a town near ours to find the “perfect spot” to see the huge display!
I remember friends meeting us there!
It was a very special annual event.
And then as the fireworks began, I remember staring straight up at the sky wondering what would come next.
Would it be loud,causing me to cover my ears?
Would it be silent?
Would it be all green or all red or multi-colored?
Would it make a sizzling sound as different parts of the light swirled to the ground?
Or would it simply appear and then be gone?
As each firework made its debut, we would all gasp and do our simultaneous ooohhhhs and aaaahhhhhhs. Sometimes overly-dramatic, we soaked in each fireworks glory.
We knew the fireworks were nearing the end when suddenly firework after firework would light up the sky booming and banging us into the reality that it was almost time to load the car and go home.
This year as we watched the firework display which was very beautiful, I realized several things:
First, the fireworks were so close together that there was never a break in the beauty of a lit-up sky. The darkness of the night sky never had a chance to regain our attention placing us on the edge of our “sheets” as we waited to see what was next. There was no anticipation.
Second, there was very little ooohhhhing and aaaahhhhing from the crowd. Mostly because we didn’t have a chance to soak in one firework without seeing the next but also because, I believe, it takes so much more to impress us as a people anymore.
I guess I walked away from the fireworks filling a little disappointed in how “under enthused” my kids were about the night. I even heard one child near us say, “They were ok..Disney World’s are better.”
So, I decided to take a little time and see what I learned from all of these thoughts that have been rolling through my mind and I think this is it.
I want to notice the beauty in ONE.
One person.
One verse.
One flower.
One tree.
One smile.
One moment.
One friend.
One song.
One hug.
One laugh.
One sunrise.
One sunset.
Lord, forgive me when I do not ooohhh and aaaahhhh over the miracle of each new day. Wake up my senses, Lord.
You created the power of One…
Ephesians 5
4There is one body and one Spirit-just as you were called
to one hope when you were called- 5one Lord, one faith,
one baptism; 6one God and Father of all, who is over all
and through all and in all.
One voice thankful for each one of you,


In December of 2007 as our youngest son, Nick, was fighting brain cancer, I began to blog. Writing provided a way for me to release all of my questions, fears, and doubts. It also allowed me to share the ups and downs of Nick's journey with people who were praying for him all over the world. When Nick went Home in November of 2008, my blog became my way of searching for God in the midst of my deep heartache. My heart was broken and grief brought to the surface every emotion imaginable. Being able to release those emotions through my writing brought a sense of purpose to my pain. Having already walked the road of grief in 1992 when we lost our daughter to SIDS, I knew I needed a way to keep from falling into a pit of depression and despair. I had walked close to the edge of a bottomless pit when we lost our daughter,and I knew I couldn't let myself get that close to the edge again. This blog has been and continues to be my tiny corner of the world where I can share My Heart as I journey through God's Word.......thus the name........ My Heart His Words. Thank you for taking time to share life with me. If we do not meet while here on earth, I look forward to hearing all about your life when we reach our final destiny.........Heaven! Email me anytime at 

I find this so true in my life, taking so much for granted. There are miracles around us everyday and I so often have my eyes focused on myself. That is my prayer today that I can see with grateful and new eyes. Thank you Tammy.
All I can say is how true and also how sad that we miss so much each day. I am going to take this to heart and ask God to make me more aware of the “One” in my days.
WOW…you always say just the right things!
Amy (Johnson)
Tammy, this is so true! Thank you for this message of taking the time to be present for the present.
Thanks Tammy for reminding us to be thankful for each and every precious day. I, myself, tend to take things for granted way too often and need a little help remembering just how blessed I am.