I wanted to start talking about joy this morning on my blog, so I did a little Google search and found this diagram of “the wheel of life” online at http://www.lessons4living.com.
In life, we are going to experience times of happiness, times of loss, times of suffering, and times of hoping…………Hope is actually what moves us from suffering to happiness many times.
The hope of Heaven
The hope of healing
The hope of a new day filled with new promises
But in the center of everything that we experience is a point of peace, a point of meeting and knowing God and understanding that EVERYTHING we say and do revolves around Him.
When we learn to turn towards this center and focus on Him, then we will experience perfect love as well as carry with us an abiding faith and a bubbling joy.
God longs for us to have this kind of joy.
I found another website talked about the fact that “happiness” generally comes from things outside of us while “joy” seems to be something that comes from deep within us.
I don’t know about you, but I have spent a lot of years of my life searching for happiness. Honestly, I still battle the need to feel “happy” when it comes to my job, my kids, and my marriage. Deep inside I think we all like to feel happy.
BUT SOMETIMES WE FIND OURSELVES IN A DARK PLACE FAR AWAY FROM HAPPINESS…
Then what?
Where do we turn?
I believe we constantly have to turn to God, the center of the wheel of life, as we journey through the dark and light places.
In this center, this intersection of every aspect of our lives, we find Him and in finding Him we experience joy and peace…NO MATTER WHAT.
Psalm 16:11 says,
You make known to me the path of life;
you will fill me with joy in your presence,
with eternal pleasures at your right hand.
Today, you will probably experience momentary happiness from time to time. Someone will say something kind to you. A child will make you laugh. You will receive an email or Facebook post that causes you to smile. But, along the way, you may sense a feeling of “longing for happiness” when people choose not to say kind words or your inbox is full of junk mail or your job brings stress and you need a break.
It is in those moments of “longing for happiness” that joy steps up and says, “Look to the center! Look to God! He’s still there turning the wheel……and in His presence there is always ME…JOY!”
I’m turning to the center today.
Every time a student chooses not to listen while I’m talking, I’m turning to the center.
Every time I feel tired and wish I could be home on this rainy day, I’m turning to the center.
Every time I think about the fact that this weekend I will be speaking at a women’s retreat and I don’t feel quite ready, I’m turning to the center.
Every time Nick flashes through my mind and I feel sad, I’m turning to the center.
Every time I remember that in only eight days Evan moves to California, I’m turning to the center.
I’m praying that you can turn to the center too.
God is there!
Where faith, love, and joy abound, you will find God……in the center of it all!
Have a happy Tuesday.
God bless all of my blogging friends,


In December of 2007 as our youngest son, Nick, was fighting brain cancer, I began to blog. Writing provided a way for me to release all of my questions, fears, and doubts. It also allowed me to share the ups and downs of Nick's journey with people who were praying for him all over the world. When Nick went Home in November of 2008, my blog became my way of searching for God in the midst of my deep heartache. My heart was broken and grief brought to the surface every emotion imaginable. Being able to release those emotions through my writing brought a sense of purpose to my pain. Having already walked the road of grief in 1992 when we lost our daughter to SIDS, I knew I needed a way to keep from falling into a pit of depression and despair. I had walked close to the edge of a bottomless pit when we lost our daughter,and I knew I couldn't let myself get that close to the edge again. This blog has been and continues to be my tiny corner of the world where I can share My Heart as I journey through God's Word.......thus the name........ My Heart His Words. Thank you for taking time to share life with me. If we do not meet while here on earth, I look forward to hearing all about your life when we reach our final destiny.........Heaven! Email me anytime at 

And how blessed we are to have God as our center. I don’t want to think where we would be without Him. Even when we feel sad, lonely, we call and He is there to help us back on our feet. And when we feel happy, we thank Him as well for that moment. Life on earth is a struggle, God is watching and listening on how we make it through, and it sounds like you looking for the center in all that you today is good for you and all those around you, including me your blog friend. Today I am going to ponder the difference between joy and happiness in my life. Thanks. Hugs, Sandy